I certainly hope I am not the only one out there who feels this way, but I was totally irked by something I heard while listening to the radio today.   Let me explain.

Britney Spears is in concert tonight in Kansas City and one of our local radio stations was giving away front row tickets for the show.  They did that whole thing where they talk about the finalists then say, "let's call the winner now!" as if they hadn't already dialed and pre-recorded the whole thing.  But, whatever.

So, they dial the number and a man picks up. They then ask for his wife, the person they were trying to reach to notify that she'd won.  The guy politely tells them that she's in class at the moment so the radio DJs proceed to explain to him that his wife was a finalist for the concert tickets and that she is indeed the winner.  The guy seems pretty excited about it, stating that his wife absolutely loves Britney and that she will undoubtedly be excited about it when she finds out.

Then the female DJ proceeds to ask him if they have a daughter and he says they do.  She then asks him how old she is.  He replies that she's five years old.  Then, the DJ says to him, "oh, wow!  She must LOVE Britney, right??"!  And he then replies that of course she does, just like the mom.

That's where my eyes started rolling. 

C'mon, five??  Really?  Now, maybe I have no place being irritated, after all I have no daughters (and I make NO apologies or complaints about that, mind you!), but I know and am friends with MANY moms who do and I can't EVER see ANY of them being okay with their five year-old listening to, watching, and especially LOVING Britney!  I mean, I have a five year-old son and I like the occasional hip-hop tunes myself, but in NO way could I see myself over-exposing my kids to artists that I think are out of their demographic!  Am I the only one who sees it this way?  Isn't five years-old much too young to be interested in an artist like Britney?  Shouldn't that five year-old be listening to a Kindermusik CD or something from Funky Mama or Mr. Stinky Feet or The LaLa's?

I was totally shocked at how the radio DJs were playing it up too, saying things like, "oh, your daughter will be so happy when she's sixteen and someone tells her that she got to sit in the front row of a Britney concert!"  Really?  I'd be a little embarrassed – and worried - that my mom even took me to a Britney concert at five!

Maybe I'm too strict of a mom.  Maybe there's a reason I don't have daughters and that's all good with me for now. 


5 responses to “Not exactly a Circus for 5 year-olds.”

  1. Chrissie Grace Avatar

    Oh Goodness!
    You better be careful, you may have a little girl growing in that belly!
    We have 4 boys and one girl, and I’ll tell you one is enough.:)
    Chrissie Grace

  2. nina Avatar
    nina

    I hope they aren’t planning on taking that little girl to the show! It is NOT a circus. My SIL was thinking about letting her 13 year old go and decided that it wasn’t appropriate for someone her age and I would say that I totally agree. Of course, said 13 year old thinks her mom is the worst mom ever now because “everyone else” gets to go. Oh well. Life’s hard.

  3. candy Avatar

    Thanks Chrissie! Yes, you may be right….I wouldn’t know what to do though! We’ll find out in May. Thanks for visiting! 🙂

  4. Karen Avatar

    I agree with you, Candy. The only concert I considered taking James to outside of kids music was Jack Johnson. I would never take him to the other shows I’d like to see (not that I am a regular-concert-goer). I find it a little inappropriate when some rap videos have little kids shaking their butts for the vid (from my memory of MTV in the 90’s). I am speaking in ways that really make me feel old, now, so I’ll stop.

  5. Josephine Avatar
    Josephine

    Britney Spears….isn’t she the one whose children were taken away from her?…and didn’t she have a nervous breakdown?…okay, I realize we are not perfect but Britney is not someone I would want my own daughter idolizing at 5 or 25. She is in no way a role model for anyone…female or male. Oh and neither is her sister.

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